13-12-14' HDB

I'm happy for my brother and sis-in-law that they can finally have a private place call home. 

I'm glad for Jing and Junwen that the lovely couple will be settling down soon in their new love nest.

I'm relieved to see Ying and BT are doing up their new flat and will be moving in soon.

Having and owning a home with your partner is an achievement. It brings the definition of 'home' to a whole new level. Looking back, I can see how stagnant I am. To be honest, I feel rather put off when people starts broaching the topic on 'when are you getting your house?'

Because neither of us envision this. It seems to be not in the game or something we are actively thinking about. This should be worrying, isn't it? I guess it tells alot. Marriage is not on the cards. Where would this lead us? 

The more weddings I attend, the further I feel away from the holy matrimony. The differences seems impossible to bridge; we can't seem to compromise anymore without feeling bitter. Maybe you can say all we need is some time or sparks, or a miracle.