21-09-2010` What should I do on 10 Oct?
Actually, I do have a hunch that something is not right. I am a woman afterall, a highly sensitive one. So what are my options?
A)Go one-to-one and have a confrontation
B)Call up and vent my distress
C)Ask around why I'm off the loop
D)Do nothing
I chose the teddy bear approach, D) Do nothing. Along with it comes good and bad. The good, is not to pursue the matter, leave it to rest, feign ignorance. Perhaps they don't mean it, or there could be other reasons. The bad, ultimately I'll feel sour for a long time. It's going to brew and harnest over time and when the day comes, I'll either throw up eveything or give up on the 5 years friendship and adopt the 'can't be bothered' attitude.
Friends embrace you for who you are. I can be a listener; I can hold secrets; I can laugh and cry with you. That is all if you were to be able to see beyond my amoured self. People do things for a reason, I do things for a reason. I can't expect you to understand unless you were to take the path I took but at least, to be empathetic.
If you would have asked, as a gesture of goodwill and involvement, I wouldn't feel this bad. How would you feel if you were the one being left out? How would you feel...
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