Lingy gone into hiding

Tuesday, January 29, 2013

29-01-13' Todai

From previous experience, if I were to jog 3 times a week, I'd shed at least 1-2kg. But this time, no, nothing!

Calvin would go, 'later you go there to top up fare card and I go get the 1-for-1 ice cream', or after lesson, 'lets get a burger shall we?'. All these, impromptu and unrehearsed or asked. For one, I forgot, second, the food is already in front and third, of course couldn't resist the temptation.

The final blow came, we went to Todai buffet over the weekend. Calvin has been rattling about the snow crab for the entire month. Awesome experience but I could jolly well kiss my weight loss program good bye!

Grrrr.

Bottom line? Your partner could motivate you or de-motivate you greatly.

Friday, January 25, 2013

24-01-13' 毅力

我在练的不是身体,是毅力。

-周杰伦

Thursday, January 24, 2013

24-01-13' The other face of Facebook

By Belinda Goldsmith


LONDON (Reuters) - Witnessing friends' vacations, love lives and work successes on Facebook can cause envy and trigger feelings of misery and loneliness, according to German researchers.

A study conducted jointly by two German universities found rampant envy on Facebook, the world's largest social network that now has over one billion users and has produced an unprecedented platform for social comparison.

The researchers found that one in three people felt worse after visiting the site and more dissatisfied with their lives, while people who browsed without contributing were affected the most.

"We were surprised by how many people have a negative experience from Facebook with envy leaving them feeling lonely, frustrated or angry," researcher Hanna Krasnova from the Institute of Information Systems at Berlin's Humboldt University told Reuters.

"From our observations some of these people will then leave Facebook or at least reduce their use of the site," said Krasnova, adding to speculation that Facebook could be reaching saturation point in some markets.

Researchers from Humboldt University and from Darmstadt's Technical University found vacation photos were the biggest cause of resentment with more than half of envy incidents triggered by holiday snaps on Facebook.

Social interaction was the second most common cause of envy as users could compare how many birthday greetings they received to those of their Facebook friends and how many "likes" or comments were made on photos and postings.

"Passive following triggers invidious emotions, with users mainly envying happiness of others, the way others spend their vacations and socialize," the researchers said in the report "Envy on Facebook: A Hidden Threat to Users' Life Satisfaction?" released on Tuesday.

"The spread and ubiquitous presence of envy on Social Networking Sites is shown to undermine users' life satisfaction."

They found people aged in their mid-30s were most likely to envy family happiness while women were more likely to envy physical attractiveness.

These feelings of envy were found to prompt some users to boast more about their achievements on the site run by Facebook Inc. (FB.O) to portray themselves in a better light.

Men were shown to post more self-promotional content on Facebook to let people know about their accomplishments while women stressed their good looks and social lives.

The researchers based their findings on two studies involving 600 people with the results to be presented at a conference on information systems in Germany in February.

The first study looked at the scale, scope and nature of envy incidents triggered by Facebook and the second at how envy was linked to passive use of Facebook and life satisfaction.

The researchers said the respondents in both studies were German but they expected the findings to hold internationally as envy is a universal feeling and possibly impact Facebook usage.

"From a provider's perspective, our findings signal that users frequently perceive Facebook as a stressful environment, which may, in the long-run, endanger platform sustainability," the researchers concluded.

Wednesday, January 23, 2013

23-01-13' Getting started

2km is a good start.

Need more discipline.

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Was introduced to Alvin & Yuki page on Facebook by Jing.

It got me emotional. I could relate to it I guess.

Tuesday, January 15, 2013

I can't seem to make the right decisions these days. Frustrated.

Saturday, January 12, 2013

12-01-13' Being 26.

I'm a happy 26, so far.

:)

Tuesday, January 08, 2013

08-01-13' iPhone 5

iPhone 5 is great. The camera works so much better than my 2MP 3GS. Map function is stunning as well. Was afraid of it slipping off my hand because it feels small and light now.

Then I realised, I couldn't use my exiting chargers from my 3GS, iPod touch, iPod nano or iPad.

Let's hope Diaso makes the lightning cable soon!

07-01-13' Exams! :(

Registering for exams set my panic button on. Seeing the dates so closely stacked together, it truly scares the hell outta me.

Calvin was jokingly (actually half serious I sensed) saying that if we couldn't make it through, which is so likely given our progress, we should stop and focus on career. There would be so many things we could do. I have to admit that this thought did spouted in my head and I had tried very hard to suppress it down.

Instead of internal motivation, the external motivation of not being a 'loser' is taking charge. This, is not sufficient to pull one through.

It is so hard to perform work duties and study, because one has to compromise to another. Sigh. I'm facing issues with organizing my study days given 7.5 annual leave I have for 2013 till May and 5 papers to take.

I'm a goner.

Saturday, January 05, 2013

05-01-13' Whatsapp becomes a host for meeting on weekends.

A lovely Saturday and your boss created a whatsapp group to discuss how to improve your work productivity.

Technology connects people together 24/7 but it also mean that you are being linked up with work 24/7. Like army on standby, you have to be on your toes because you will be expected to respond.

I could either delete Whatsapp or change my phone to non-smart.